Reflection

Compared to other girls at your school, do you think you're ugly? No matter what you try, you never become as pretty as them? Or were you dumped because you weren't pretty enough? No matter what the reason, there is a way to heal you. 

The boy and the girl that fell in love

The moment the girl first heard the boy's voice, she fell in love with his voice.

The moment the girl first smelled the boy's hair, she fell in love with his scent.

The moment the girl first held the boy's hand, she fell in love with his warmth.
And when the boy first saw this girl, he fell in love with her too.
Just as unexplainable as the sky, the earth, and the sea. 
And even life itself.

xoxoxo.

LOVE ARROW

Why am I crying now? My tears were overflowing and couldn’t stop. As if I had forgotten how to stop. I wonder how long it had been since I last cried. I feel like I’ve just been stabbed in the heart. I just like throwing up. In the same feeling, like the time I failed. It hurts so much.

I am not a genius. I finally understand what they meant back then. I put in so much effort. But, that life doesn't exist anymore. I fell like my dream that I used to hold onto so desperately is finished. And suddenly, I can't stop crying. I'm not talented. I'm a looser. It looks as though I've lost my target. I've crawled my way up from the bottom to the top, only to find out that I'm a looser. Why? I'm exhausted from crying like that. I did my best. It was hard because I started late and wasn't any good, but I blossomed. I thought it was useless, no matter how many times I tried. I was pathetic, so I started to skip my lesson. However, no matter how many times I cried, things never changed. I finally notice that I cried a lot. After that, I promised myself that no matter what, I would never give up. I found that I didn’t cry anymore. And I kept pushing myself. Suddenly, I realized that I had no reason to be sad.

I cry when I’m in despair. And I will cry when I’m happy and when I’ve tried my hardest.  No matter how hopeless this all seems, no matter how pitiful I appear, I’ll keep going! Even if I use up all of my strength, I will definitely do it for myself. No matter how painful it is, I will endure it all. After this, I’m going to make a new story with my new talent!

I've realized the happiest time of my life. The moments of life only happens once. From now on, I’ll appreciate every moment. This is my life and I’m enjoying my life....

"DRAMATIC PLAY therapy"

Sekilas tentang Dramatic Play therapy:

Dramatic Play atau bermain drama adalah sebuah permainan yang dilakukan pada sekelompok kecil anak (kebetulan ini dilakukan pada anak, kalo pada remaja dewasa atau orangtua, saya tidak tahu. maaf) dengan beberapa aturan permainan sebagai berikut:

1. Satu kelompok terdiri dari 8 orang (8-10 orang, sepertinya gitu. Kalo kebanyakan bisa tidak efektif). Jumlah total ada 3 kelompok (30 anak). Terapi tidak bisa dilakukan secara bersamaan, jadi harus satu kelompok dulu baru disusul kelompok selanjutnya. 
2. Gunakan "sang pakar therapis bermain" pada anak-anak, cukup satu orang saja. Kalo perlu ya pake yang udah ada sertifikat terapis gitu (kalo teman saya pake pakar terapi bermain dari RS sebelah kampus a.k.a bu Kiki dari bag. tumbuh kembang anak RS dr. Sardjito).  Jika menggunakan orang awam atau asal pilih maka saat proses terapi tidak akan bisa menarik perhatian anak-anak kecil (ngatur diri sendiri aja susah, apalagi ngatur anak kecil 5th yang lagi doyan bandel-bandelnya, huee...)
3. Lakukan setiap terapi di tempat yang sama dan familiar dengan anak, misal ruang kelas.
4. Terapi dilakukan selama 3 kali selama 3 minggu dengan 3 tema bermain yang sudah ditentukan. Pilih tema yang mudah dan disukai anak 5th. Misal: bermain boneka tangan, bermain peran di kelas, dan bermain peran sebagai hewan. Gunakan alat bantu seperti boneka, gambar, alat bermain, dsb. Gunakan bahasa atau isyarat permainan yang mudah dimengerti anak. 
5. Durasi terapi kurang lebih 15 menit. 
6. Therapist bertugas mengumpulkan perhatian anak agar fokus bermain dengan anak-anak terapi. Jika konsentrasi anak sudah pecah dan susah diatur, segera akhiri permainan.
7. Hindari anak kontak dengan guru, orangtua, atau pengasuh. Jika anak sulit dipisahkan dari orangtua atau pengasuhnya maka boleh didampingi masuk ke tepi area bermain tetapi tidak boleh ikut campur dalam permainan. 
8. Jika untuk penelitian, cari anak TK yang belum pernah masuk ke play group agar instinc bermainnya masih alami. 
9. Siapin tenaga dan UANG yang BANYAK. Bayar therapist itu cukup nguras tabungan loh. Bisa lebih dari sejuta. xexexexe.

Itu tadi hasil pengamatan saya saat melihat penelitian teman saya, Melin yang kebetulan mengambil terapi bermain drama pada anak. Pemilihan kriteria anak yang akan dilakukan terapi sudah cukup membuat Melin pusing. Syarat anak belum masuk playgroup pada zaman ini cukup susah ditemukan. Terlebih lagi lokasi rumah dan kampusnya kebetulan di daerah perkotaan yang mayoritas keluarga pekerja sehingga sedari kecil sang anak sudak dititipkan ke tempat bermain. Kurang lebih sudah 5 TK disambanginya di daerah kota dan hasilnya tidak bisa dilakukan terapi. Dan akhirnya, saya ajak Melin nengok TK yang kebetulan ada di dekat rumah saya. hehe. Dan kebetulan juga itu TK sesuai dengan kriteria di atas tadi. xoxo

Melin, teman saya yang melakukan penelitian.

  

Lokasi : TK PERTIWI --Warak, Sumberadi, Mlati, Sleman, Yogyakarta 55288 Indonesia

September, 2011

LOVELY LESSON

Compared to other girls at your school, do you think you're ugly? No matter what you try, you never become as pretty as them? Or were you dumped because you weren't pretty enough? No matter what the reason, there is a way to heal you. 

---- Sasaki Mea -----

FLOWER LETTER

Cried....laughed and cry. I miss you in my loneliness. Engraved on the red leaves.

I used my tears to erase your image. Looking at your face, I suddenly smile with you. Though I know this dream will never come true, my tears keep rolling down. Because if it's not the fate, I want to let it go but it keeps engraving more and more deeply in my heart. The more I've tried to let it go, the more it accumulates. After all I cannot forget you.

Cried...laughed and cry again. I miss you in my loneliness. Would this colorless life be better in the end? My life is full of hardship and pain. Hope to see you again in this place.

The day when there are no longer tears in this world is the day we meet again. Because of your beautiful smile and your tender eyes, they all become forever at the far away horizon in which direction you've gone to….

balita emang imut

haihahi... lagi coba hunting foto orang,, eh tiba2 nongol balita di rumah. ini dia hasilnya...

 ini Yeyen (2th-an) lucu kann.. heheh....

hemm, imut yak. Masa dimana saat manusia terlihat lucu dan menggemaskan tuh ya balita. tul yak...

note

Compared to other girls at your school, do you think you're ugly? No matter what you try, you never become as pretty as them? Or were you dumped because you weren't pretty enough? No matter what the reason, there is a way to heal you.